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Parent Seminar Workshop 11/17/21: Parent Involvement

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time summit what's the newest in Alliance michou on the 8th grade and 11th grade concert today we have a guest speaker the turning point or at the nameless will not be that special it turning point but I still try to come out here a little bit more about how can you help your your your kids I'll be a great presentation today I'm so I want to welcome and if you tripping good morning thank you so much Christian can you guys hear me well I know the cameras are off but okay thank you thank you for for having me my name is Anna C Wednesday on the director of Turning Point we help parents we actually Empower parents to to help their kids and title really to get involved in their lives and today we're going to learn a lot about that but besides me being the director of a mother of three children who is not only, now from a professional level but also from a personal level my oldest wanted 18 my boy is 12 and my little one it's night so I have all the ages they're all different different personalities different characters when I had my daughter my first one is it okay with no big deal I got it but then I had my little one and then I said okay I'm going to do the same thing I did with my oldest one but that it was shocking to me different personality did not work time Mi wouldn't talkin with that with her wooden work so I have to kind of find another skills to to really get to her hard and and I want to share a little bit about all of that and then also of course a professional level but again thank you thank you so much for for invited me and I'm excited I'm really happy to see so many parents login then that tells me a lot about you and that's actually the topic for today like how why is it so important to get involved lies in what is that mean to us as a parent so it we're ready to go let me know on that other can I share my screen Reddit we need to translate please okay go for it then I'll go slow and yes please thank you and your name again I'm sorry and Sunday in a win at the end of Thor electoral products are turning point at it again and it is as I said. 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Stomach back a TV screen let me know if you're able to see it as well Celeste let's get started again thank you thank you so much and today's topic it's going to be getting involved okay okay so there's a the difference between being present and existence and I wanted to dive into this right now it is said they are you not a g differential weather in Tracy l a n t e l l start assistant a so get in and ball and our kids slides really really makes a difference in their lives it doesn't matter what age there are able impactor your your kids as life just to be involved in everything Central City get it listed in Pueblo Colorado and La Vida by David so being pregnant is literally watching let me start with this Justin existen is this dude isn't there you take them to school you feed them you give them money you buy them shoes you provide everything that you're supposed to be providing that was just being existing does the visible star Pantry, Dallas dinero compilation Aloha Escuela so they know that you're the mom you they know that you're the dad they just know it you know but it's not so much because you're being present it just that they know that they have both parents or they have a apparently the only have my mom and only have a. And that's just being existing gold in every area of their life being present cover photo in Canada area that the president is also not it doesn't have to be that you agree or disagree all the time it has to be meet you have to meet them halfway in order for you to be present have ever faced and baby so they can guinea pigs where do where do where are you so be it but me halfway I left that I better get it and seem to get the ignition control thank you okay so being present as well as like you literally are interested in whether interested on your literally not only just you see your kids on the outside or was he that kids Far Away by you actually walking that Journey with them and that's being present and still says we should get our percentage if you can use this time to Aristotle and Lawson this is this is Steve Eskimo so let me give you an example let's see you're washing the dishes and your kids is Mom can I talk to you and your end go ahead I think I can and your your son comes from school mama this is what happened oh yeah what happened but you keep washing the dishes you keep doing what you're doing yes you're listening to what he's saying but you're not being present with him doesn't make sense what is a way that it doesn't do continuous lavender Los trastes Alina baraz and see if they produce it was the last sentence you said that I thought that example shows what that's being that's that's not being present in there because you're you're listening but you're not focusing you're not paying attention to what he's saying at that moment so I don't know where that is going to hit Florida and my sister presentable escuchando Contino alabando Los trastes I don't know if you have less pain than a new Aloha school just to see her so that the right there were given a message the mom or dad just exist it doesn't say any letter more than do when hen Planet Rosie Jose Clemente existe it's more important that what you have to say to me it doesn't cinnamon cycling is my important a little bit to get it from Pantene so why what does it mean exactly to be present there's so many things that that it comes with it but I'm going to share a few so you being pressed in your kid's life gives you confidence or give them confidence maneras de Como Luce playlist are presented below your nose. 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I really rather than communication and I can't remember that for baldness volunteer Olympia be able to have communication with others they go to solve a problem they able to listen to others why because you asked the parents you're doing it at home so you want to make sure you've been present in their lives regardless of their age in total disarray I lost a stylist has a pension Easter present a letter uristat going to have been no problem man, communicate Como escuchar otro Porter-Cable I was tested on the Layla wants to get involved and the kids like when they're already on preteens adolescent or even with their having those changes and problems behavior problems but that's the worst time for you to start being present it is so important for you to be present since day one because I had to stop for the same thing as a percentage window unit receipt who is Benji ASL sign your day and they Wonder yeston Hogan is dead people do you understand why we work and we have so many things going on but sometimes you on the Run you're you're you're doing what you're supposed to do your cooking your cleaning you listening at the same time but having that imbalance of not impressing you can flat can really really harm your kids adult or young adult life, Korean. Olympian do Balenciaga Illinois Representatives El principio weather than ye are as to how or when or when do I use you're going to sit as well for you today to identify what are bangs or what areas in your kids like you haven't been present that you know that okay I must change this and I'm going to give you a few examples okay it's supposed to say you know what I look like is that mean Marlow's house. I can even be speaking while as soon as I'm sorry I don't do that let me tell you what what happened why parents don't get involved in and the kids life the first one again Atlanta biggest Yamaha Grizzly La Primera is priorities out of order last Saturday they lost animals where they order them for you to let your kids know that are important in your life and that they suspect and they struggles and they changes and they behaviors and everything that they go through it really matters to you it does Adisa Caribbean important they are Solis Herrera to see Jose Kao spawn importantes para vacation is is also very important because have you heard of the saying said it's not what I is not what I say is what I do I make with Charlie to be an important local so they read us they see what you do they looking at you they look up to you and they want it they want to make sure that you are listening the one and make sure that you're really care and sometimes when we do when they do not get that attention from us then that's when the negative behavior started coming along and don't say this is a game has been located to us when do when do aerosystems always the present day Malcolm portamento so there's other things like your word you're so busy sometimes maybe you don't know how to do it maybe you don't know how to get involved in that maybe you'll go out with not a and not both parents you grew up with the single mom or single father and you don't know how really hard what it is or how it looks like to get involved sometimes maybe you don't make time to it or you have this mentality there's no time I don't have time to sit down and I talked with my son I don't have time to to take him to the park I don't have time I have to work I have to go to school myself I have to do all this with the kids and we don't have time for it the other reason is that you might not understand why my involvement is important somebody said I get a motor size Lo mejor con El Papa soltero y Como Es El 4K element has important so there is so many factors rise also stress the way you grow up at home or even afraid yeah I know just factor is whether I style Estrellas is the Illuminati Meniere's disease test implemented the way we are in our task with their parents or or just our backgrounds really triggers things in your life that you were afraid of do the same thing or or for you to go to the opposite way Basilica de la Manera Nosotros Lemos pianos Bella is a salami Mall Aurora simplemente knows that miedo trippin. You said I'm not going to do that to my child I'm just going to beat a friend and let him do whatever he wants because I don't want him to feel the way I felt when I was his age it doesn't appear that only he employs the element. is it on super Street the way I be in the street. You know they have a nice day the NADA and dozes to our I could be nice to see her students is no Yo no quiero que use passing Paraiso your way are you going to boil a hard egg no kidding are you experimenting local state experiment that American democracy end up doing that we getting involved with in the Bios letting them do and not give him structure and not correcting certain Behavior we doing them a favor old that child is happy but is is it's completely wrong they said I can't it doesn't look at that and we can also do the other as well ride you grew up in a home where they will let you do whatever you want mom was never present dad was always working and you said I don't know I'm going to get involved in my kids life and I'm going to be on top of them 24/7 do everything that they be aware what they're doing and that could be also going through extreme Ethan gamer sister-in-law Tristan mobile. do a percentage I pass a to go trabajando Villa in to see if they will typically has a it doesn't disengage it says he knows how important for us to identify what is it that is holding me back for me being present and getting involved in my kids life it doesn't be an important evidence presented some tips how can we get him out right we all have our past we all grew up in a different way we all make me stays at one point as a parent but is never too late for us to make changes and adjustments in our and our kids life as a parent it does a disabled vehicle parking in Aurora cell. the seahorse with your children Lo primero is established tiempo en la Luna con Su hijo orifice so if you have if you wait for you to have time to do that is never going to happen fuse that assist an Inspiron do parents simple but I seriously because you work you go to school you have to clean you have to cook there so many Duty so many things that you have to do that if you do if you time or do you count you're going to say I don't have time how I'm going to go spend time one-on-one with my child dentists use this has been on the way. Muhammad Ali Obama conspiracy Temple important for you to establish when you stablish accept this day at this time is going to be my one-on-one with my child it doesn't put a sale in Port Angeles de established okay I'll establish say hello on Tiempo es una something that I noticed with 9 year old is ask her if she has a very strong personality and she's always wants to do things and she's outspoken and I will ask myself and I how can I get to her heart because it look like she was just trying to get attention how do you say you'll do it you control if they want them, where you got to Corazon and I decided to spend time with her 20 minutes every day with nobody else around just me and her and that changed everything I was able to see how her negative behavior started going down and more normalizing because what she wanted it is just to spend time with me alone it's supposed to say you always had a good idea. It doesn't say a Suave Campbell's Soup apartamento Malcolm portamento on a 2000 Facebook so let me tell you something you said well I watch movies with them I go to the park with them I do things with them like I think I spend enough time with them so and if we have them intelity right that that we do spend time but let me ask you something if you were watching a movie with your children with your child but you have your phone right next to you and you're responding to a text that's not spending time one-on-one with them and they know that my internet was I think I got most of it it doesn't do to be a Paso Tiempo Coronavirus music Advanced at 1 do to stop being the one that Bella coola Cuneo doses it annoys star exactly so that's not being present and they know that they see you they know and I remember my little one because I like I said she was very outspoken Mom are you watching the movie with me so I needed to make change it because for her is very important for me to spend time with her Intercity Yayo look where are you does it come up with a woman in a candy table and yeah, Mama I said it was Cambio also when you go to the park a lot of parents down with me and I go to the park I take them my kids to the park you know three times a day and then I asked what do you do at the park well I take my check I sit down and I let him stay or let her play and I'm just here on my phone listen to music this is amazing new one I don't see why your password get one pumpkin Trail bases for Amana gas stove and that's not being present at all at all what you're doing your existing you're providing you what you're doing to just take them to the park so they can have fun when you're not involved in playing with them so the best thing to do is just to get in getting to play with them go to the monkey bars with them get on the skateboard if you can only if you can just get involved and what they're doing because you given value by doing that is there a Painted Desert Park Estates Fiesta haciendo is the patent and the other ones just have family meetings eat meals together as often as you can both think they're very important the other day I was at a restaurant and you see that very often you go eat you with your family and they're all in their phone and that's a big No-No and doesn't want has a family irregularmente, Alameda he said a restaurant if so how many regular regular family meeting for eating meals together you might say that too much I cannot eat with my kids for all the three times but what I do most of it my afternoon my dinner we all eat together I do not allow the kids go to the rooms with their food go to the leader or have the TV on and what I did I create a box and I put cell phone and everybody puts their cell phone there including my myself and my husband the police have the game Seattle henna no puedo comer Los Tres Amigos your throat as Siempre unless you want to stay local is cellulitis and do this in Korean. me in my vicinity Impala. So this is what you're doing during a given value to them there is a big difference between values and rules is the triple or irregular values is when you explain to them why it's so important not to be on the phone with me while we're eating and and a rule is like don't be on your phone so when they listen they you do understand why it's so important not to have the phones in my table we wanted to talk we wanted to communicate so you want to make sure it don't just tell them don't be on your phone don't eat in your room explain why is it so important for you guys to spend that time as a family in transit Visa reggae to Lester's is Bleak and uppercase tan importante de telefono con 2018 bonus starting to tell when do you use this couch and pain due to less Bleak as well as important to the nearest 10. She been in there Airport don't be afraid of asking where they're going or what they're doing when they become you know pre-teen or or teenagers there they're going through so many changes and I can parents we have to be intentional and we have to ask why do they ask that type of question why do they do what they want to do why do they want to go where they want to go you want to make sure you ask those questions without being afraid what the response are you going to be may I reserve a game I cannot think I may be pregnant. Google, Padres Anthony Knows by the pretty know or teenagers a Havanese spell out the name of the settings into knowledge is the name of the airport in San Diego that they are citizens also you have to be support or what they like you need to be a good listener and you have to validate their feelings when you are a good listener then you make them feel special and they want to come in. you what they're going through throughout the day if they try to talk to you and if you don't stop doing what you're doing then they're not going to come and you going to have that you won't have the line of communication with your kids what's the name of the name of evil or was it says police state lottery system PDF yeah you do something as busy as we also have to remember the things that are important for them for us a minor a big deal even either cry for something so small you have to validate and understand that for them that toy that it was so simple it was important for them and that you validating how they feel the basic game the name of get them be in a severe case important to get developer Bandon Dunes to DNS Cache Valley. There's power in connecting with your child I mean to be connected is getting to know each other sometimes you don't know your child and something they don't know you does a desert like a water park is being important they are connected going to call me. Going to name you mean you and your Joven ESO que significa El telefono de conocer say uno Al otro will not be known as conocimos but you have to understand that the kids at the age when they're going through this stage of changes they're going to pretend that they don't there and they don't need you but it's the time where you need to be present the most in their lives give me a kiss about this Achilles mean yes and they say that pollute a and operations manual is it better I lost a whole last part I'm sorry you need to be present eat better a saint is a momento cuando Tu necesitas Easter present a low mass percent and that's how does it look like communicating understanding agree or disagree, Lucifer be on instead of the acuerdo what is this mean that you don't have to agree with your child or you don't have to disagree by you meet them halfway and you want you let them know okay it's valid how you feel it's normal you're upset and express I agree or disagree or they don't have to agree with you all the time does that make sense and they said if he can get it take care of the Sea Restaurant he said no quiere decir que vas a estar Siempre acuerdo en lo que significa encontrar El Camino by Lido Key is in Star Valley. 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It is your responsibility as a parent to do this to make a difference to the responsibilities that, Padre I said is that goes as bad as it is Alex Valencia when is education La Primera is a location that your kids are going to have is the one that you give them at home La Primera cancion que swimming open at the nearest ghost Alice by Aladdin 20 got so the school is the resources it's tools that will help your kids to learn but the first thing that you must do is to Butte to be involved in it in their education does it look when Eliza is Pomona from me and Mom and Dad and their education be part of their to success you have to listen to them when their share their school struggles sometimes we we measure ourselves with them and we're like no that's not too hard it is hard for him maybe for you it wasn't hard but it's not a buy you is about them Intercity silicate, where do I buy in bulk trash in my location what is done about the yandere High School Chaplain do you'll be in English C if they know that they see I used to do is I'm going to be facing. is Coachella in The Lyricist a diet so you have to believe in them and use words to express I believe in you you got this if they come home with the struggle with the tezoro I don't like my teacher oh I don't like my my my my friend so I don't like my school just listen you don't have to agree with them you listen and you express and you change things around by make feel that they are able to do this it does the basic training I'll get the other one is mental health in relationships this is very very important because by then I don't remember my mom telling me I'm stressed I don't know Amber our parents ballerinas you know I have anger issues the other day I saw my nephew and he's only she's only seven and she told me that I think I have anger issues and I need to take anger management class where did you hear all this see Izzy Taylor Boston Tea Party a Styler open GoPro I know hope she literally asked me every know that's where my niece are monopolies illegal list of do you have to make sure you start a conversation if you wait for your child to start conversation time is going to take that momentum is going to get lost so you want to make sure you start conversation like this you feel about this. What do you think about this you always throw back the answers at them they said they'd get into the State Fair like if a child is a conversion fee on a Toshiba Satellite laptop when your child tells you something about a friend mom my friend is having depression my friend gets anxiety my friend I found out my friend was cutting himself you always ask what would you do what is a lot when do any new Vienna nancia. Oh my my you'll marry me when today give me Amigo sister cortando it does is to live as happily it went on to carry us into castle in the castle so when you do that you get to know they thought their thought process when you are question you going to start seeing how your child feels sometimes is not the friend that's feeling like that but they're afraid to tell you and so when you ask those questions and you can explore how they're feeling well coming from why is it that type of conversation is taking place it doesn't want to do a split pea soup and a stew I said Calico Molino 30 Pienza, what is a away is Tenino octopus and Owen Nursery, let's talk to them about dating talk to them about when it's appropriate be open to the thought and question and talk to me about mental health as well doesn't deserve a kitchen table. about dating pictures of appropriateness a Xavier. it is that Xavier Tucanos pensamientos if you don't get involved in this heart situation. conversation somebody else is going to get involved and is going to give them the wrong advice and what the best thing is for you as a parent to give in to be part of this in their life ultraviolet is nanoscience no habla I said police do Steam account to see who lived on Easter Park okay and the other one that is really big it's social media when you provide a phone to your child you give them life and you give them that at the same time because there is so much. 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They get to wear so but that being said that it is your responsibility many many parents told me but they don't listen but they don't want to but they so then baby coming the parents not the parents so you have to remember I'm the parent and you'll I don't know I'm just being your parents mom but why can I go outside for 5 hours because I'm just being your mom and it's not okay for you to be outside for 5 hours when I want to spend time with you but the way we communicate it really matter but just remember that you the other parent Mendoza this is no extra responsibility. In Polish I know you said he's in federal, Perkins and a good price in Santa Clara what is a Contigo yes so that's what I have for 4 today I'm not sure about the time or there is any questions or really hope that this help how to connect with your with their child and and I know that if we make those changes and adjustments it can make a big difference in there because it's a story okay thing over. 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Okay, you'll have to let him in his place at the motel is going to leave Elkhorn a cake for email us a practical joke. where is the ethical decision to invade are you lot of mental and physical DNA on the yellow snow no significant thank you for everyone for attending this meeting today thank you Miss Anna and myself I do miss that I'm driving really really appreciate it was the great red information I hopefully you can join us for a s i s a y o n it would be great it was a pleasure thank you so much for having me and yeah just let us know in advance and we can coordinate and and see what you guys would like to talk about a spot of course thank you ojala que Pronto, Sarasota little kid movie when talking interpretation dresses at those boys that killed I think it's electrical party tell us a coronavirus en China most of those markets that a quadrilateral yes on a Sono Bello stores at 7 then it was when you left out of there when via Davio's

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